After a lot of pressure from my brother in law to make my voice heard instead of only being a reader of the Board, here I am.
I read on this Board how somebody stated that the girls involved in this must have plenty of experience getting around, as you don't go from A-Z in one night. I think that was very well stated. That being said, it perplexes me that this girl released a statement. It appears there is video evidence of this being consensual and somebody said this was a planned event. If that is the case, how is there any way this girl will not be brought to light at some point soon? I would think we will know her name and then from there, somebody will find a picture and that will stay with the girl for a long time. This girl's attorney said these women will deal with this for many years to come. That I believe, but not in the way she is painting the picture. This girl basically got caught doing something she more than likely she has experience with. Even if she was a 1st timer in a 6-7 person sexual romp, she has sexual experience. Now all of a sudden - mom, dad, and family know about all of this. I would have been somewhat traumatized if my parents knew some of the stuff I did and would be mortified if they saw video evidence of it. In the day and age of social media, it won't be long before tons of people will know who she is and what she did. I have a feeling this is going to backfire huge. not just for SLU, but for the girl and her family.
Look, if she was truly raped or sexually assaulted in the way most of us know those terms, she should ABSOLUTELY seek justice and hopefully that justice would be far worse for the guys than just not playing basketball for SLU. It doesn't appear that is the case though. At the end of the day, many of us are pretty sure it was a consensual thing. If we find out it was much worse than we all know, then I applaud her bravery. However, if it were, they would have been arrested and charges would be filed. They weren't which makes it almost clear that little "Olivia Orgy" will be regretting this for many years. And by regret, I mean forcing this forward to the point where the punishment doesn't fit the situation. Apparently, she's getting advice that pushing hard towards justice for something she willingly did is better than acknowledging her mistake to herself and to make better choices for herself in the future. After all, she can only control that, and not the negative attention that will ultimately come her way. When that happens, all future men should stay clear of this woman in all regards and for many reasons.
